Think of it this way: If you have to move a pile of sand from one place to another you could do it with just your hands, but it is much easier to do if you can use a shovel and a wheelbarrow. Imagine the fun, the delight of being with someone who cares about you.
The waxing moon i. For example, the waxing to full moon is a great period for spells that rely on expansion, such as love, or abundance. But magic is very, very real, and the following instructions will help you learn how to do real spells with an expectation of some degree of success.
Id recommend writing your spell in the language you are most familiar with. In depth instructions for working sigil magick can be found here: Witch Sigils: Easy Magick. I have several small bottles of water in my witchcraft supply that were set outside during the different phases of the moon and dedicated to magickal use.
What sort of spells do you love doing?